This is How Easy it is to Be a Top 10% Woman in 2026

It has never been easier to be considered an "attractive woman" than it is in 2026.

You might not believe this if you get your information from TikTok or sociology textbooks, which tell you that there have never been higher "beauty standards." But step outside and observe: there is suprisingly little competition if you want to be considered an "attractive woman" that high-quality men would line up around the block to marry, have kids with and provide for forever.

Many women push back against "red pill" advice on this topic, viewing men's natural preferences as misogynistic. But if you're a smart girl, you should recognize it as an opportunity. Yes, this is bad news for men in the dating market, but it's actually really empowering news for young women who want to take advantage of the times we're living in to secure a man who loves them.

When it comes to being desirable, the bar is on the floor. Yes, some elements of your attractiveness are left up to chance, but much of it is within your control. If you want to be a top 10% woman in 2026, this is all that you have to do:

Don't Be Fat

Recent CDC data shows about one in three women are now considered overweight. But I don't believe in that statistic—because when you go out in public it seems more and more rare to see people who look thin and athletic. The bar for what is considered "fat" is now extremely high. Most people have extra weight on them that they definitely don't need.

People don't seem to realize how much losing weight just puts you in a completely category when it comes to looks. Not only does your body look better, but your facial attractiveness improves too. When your face thins out, your eyes and lips look bigger in comparison, your hair looks fuller, and your nose looks smaller.

By the way, I'm not telling you that you need to achieve a 90's Victoria's Secret model build to be attractive—most people aren't capable of doing that in a healthy way, and being stick-thin doesn't always look the best on everyone anyways. Health should be a priority, but most people could afford to put down the fork a bit more and go on a run. All it really takes is a calorie deficit to look better in a way that spending hours doing hair and makeup could never make up for.

Don't Be a Slut

Most single young women have been deceived into believing casual, promiscuous behavior, is the best way to lock down a high-quality man. In reality, it make it so that only the most desperate men are willing to take you seriously. Even if you've have been acted like a slut in the past, it's never too late to stop. I shouldn't have to say this, but don't sleep around.

All you really have to do is put on some clothes. When you're in public, don't wear yoga pants, crop tops, tight short dresses, excessive cleavage, lingerie shirts. etc. You might think that these things are necessary in order to get male attention, but considering every other girl is wearing those things, showing less skin actually makes you stand out more. Social media is important too– delete any bikini photos or photos with seductive poses. Constantly posting selfies or photos of yourself makes you look desperate for validation.

Regarding your history: it's 2026, most women are going to have at least a bit of a sexual or romantic past with other men. What's important is that you don't talk about it, aside from being honest about its extent if things start to get serious with a guy (make sure to express regret over any mistakes). But spare the details—most men prefer not know. Avoid talking about your exes or bragging about male attention—it actually doesn't make you look desirable. Please don't talk about male celebrities you think are hot. Pretend that the guy you're interested in is the only one that exists.

Don't Be Annoying

I find a lot of women nowadays to be extremely annoying to talk to. The vast majority have what I call "Tiktok accents" where every sentence ends in upspeak and they try to talk like gay men, or incorporate ghetto terminology like "periodt!" and "purrrrr" into everything they say. When I have to be in a conversation with someone like this, I feel like my ears are bleeding until it's over. If you talk like this, I don't really know what to say other than please have some self awareness and realize that everyone thinks that you're trying to sound like a black gay man. Maybe also put down the phone for a bit and try to talk normally.

Also, a lot of women in general have very stinky attitudes where they think they are owed the entire world simply for existing. This comes out in their language, where they think that "having a funny personality" means being overly critical of other people, especially men. Being demanding, condescending, and arrogant are unattractive qualities in everyone, and they're very easy to pick up on right off the bat. All you really have to do to have an attractive personality as a woman is to complain less, smile more, and be generally pleasant to be around. This will genuinely make you stand out in a world full of combative, never-satisfied young women.

Don't Be Masculine

Some women out there seem to think that the best way to attract a man is to act like a man yourself. This might work on an effeminate gay man, but straight men are attracted to men who actually behave like women, believe it or not.

I have been told by multiple men that any woman in public simply wearing a dress immediately catches their eye. It's not hard to incorporate flowy dresses and skirts into your daily wardrobe, and it actually makes picking out your outfits a lot easier. Wearing girly outfits will automatically make you so much more attractive to the opposite sex, and it will likely make you feel more confident too.

The ultimate feminine trait? Embracing traditional roles like wanting to be a wife and a mother. You should be able to make this obvious and clear to every man who crosses your path. Your #1 goal in life should be to have babies, take care of a man, make a beautiful home, and cook yummy food. In a culture dominated by feminism, where young women are now 13% less likely to say they want to get married someday than young men, simply wanting to be a wife is enough to make you "wife material." Being overly career-focused will be a huge turn-off for the men that are serious about settling down.

There are a variety other things you can do to signal your femininity, such as caring for the friends and family around you, bringing homemade food to functions, and picking up feminine hobbies like pilates, arts and crafts. Guys will see this and deduce that you stand out as someone who would make a great wife and mom.

Don't Be a Slob

Unfortunately, some women have amazing qualities that would check off a lot of the previously mentioned boxes, but still have trouble finding a man. These women all have one thing in common– they don't know how to make themselves look good.

Men might claim they prefer a "natural beauty" who does nothing to look good, but most people are simply not going to be a 10/10 when they wake up in the morning, so that's not really an option. Watch what men do, not what they say– they are naturally drawn to women who do their hair and makeup and know how to dress (because of the obvious fact that those things make them look better).

Of course, there is a balance to being a woman who is overly obsessed with their appearance to the point of materialism and vanity, and a woman who does nothing at all. Putting a bit of effort into your appearance when you go out does a lot. Tan, get a haircut that looks good with your face, style your hair, wear makeup that accentuates your features, clear your skin, whiten your teeth, wear jewelry, and paint your nails. There are ways to do these things affordably and in a way that doesn't suck up all your time, it just requires a little effort.

A lot of women either go overboard with this and look like drag queens, or they don't do anything and look like bums who are only ever seen with their hair pulled back and sweatpants on. If you put some effort into trying to be beautiful (especially if you follow rule #1 too) you can easily increase your level of attractiveness.

This all might seem straightforward, but think about it: How many women do you know that are slim, put effort into their appearance, are not slutty, wear dresses, want to be a wife, and are pleasant to be around?

When I go out in public and interact with "normies," the answer is close to none. Yet, these are all pretty easy things to achieve, and I think most guys would agree that they are the recipe for their "dream girl." So, if you're a woman and you're reading this, I encourage you, please take advantage of the dating market that we're in. Improve yourself and become a top 10% woman, and I promise that you will quickly secure a top 10% man that is willing to die for you.